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Ever find yourself in a heated argument, feeling stuck in the same pattern over and over? You might be experiencing what’s known as being "gridlocked" in a conflict. A Gottman Institute Blog.

Behind many criticisms is a veiled wish. Expressing the wish can feel vulnerable, so we sometimes fall into defeating strategies in which we ask for what we want in a way that almost guarantees that we won’t get it. An Esther Perel Blog.

A couple can experience gridlock on any issue, and often the more gridlocked they are, the more gridlocked they become on other things as well. A Gottman Institute Blog.
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